Education is all about bringing newness to child’s life, often we misunderstood education means only studies, it is not all about grades and scores and getting ranks, it is much more than that. It is bringing about all-round development of the child.
It is very important that as mentors and facilitators we have a greater responsibility in molding and shaping the future of our kids. Nurturing a child’s creative skill is vital to cognitive, effective development of today’s young minds.
It is very important to note to bring up young minds it is not only the school play a vital role. It is rather parents has got a greater role to play in bringing up the children for future. They should be natured with good qualities right from childhood.
It is normal often people find a more negative side of the child than the positive side. There are few areas we have seen in the previous article about the tips to bring up a child. Let us see the six major don’t of parents.
Here is some of don’ts for better parenting
1. Never Compare
It is very common parents tend to compare the child with their own siblings or with classmates of their kids. Don’t compare one child with another, putting one down up the other will certainly stagnate the growth of the child.
2. Never Use Abusing Words
Due to work pressure in the office or at the workplace you as parents come with tensed mood to the house, when things are not moving according to the way you want at home you get irritated and then use hurting words. Avoid all forms of abusing words, like physical, emotional that would affect the child.
3. Don’t Humiliate
These days the Modern generation kids are very sensitive to humiliation and any hurting words used they get dejected to life. Do not humiliate a child, especially in front of outsiders. And never indulge in punishing the child when people around. Correct then individually when they are alone.
4. Don’t Be Partial
When you have more than two or three kids never show partiality. People never forget their parents being partial. Treat everyone genteelly and equally because they are your kids. Each child is yours they love you for what you are to them. As a parent how can you be nice to one and not good to the other kids and be good to all?
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5. Never Have Destructive Habits
It very often makes kids have a negative attitude to parents. Never possess destructive attitude. Like taking drinks in the presence of the kids, smoking, speaking harmful bad words. Children keenly observe everything. They learn from what they see from the parents.
6. Don’t Speak Ill of People
All human being on earth is good, there will be always both positive and negative side you can always find, gossip is a destructive habit some pick at home. If parents are sweet to guest but speak ill of them as soon as they leave, children learn from parents the attitude of gossip. So always speak good words.
A good parent makes a good home. To make the child grow in positive way parent must possess the positive attitude. One must learn to choose good words to use in the presence of the kids.
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When a child is brought up with the positive attitude they grow to be a better citizen of the country. Parents have got the greater role to play in bring up kids. So never use the harmful word that hinders child’s growth. Be positive and teach the kids good values for life and lead exemplary lifestyle.
Let your life show good seeds of example for the kids to lay a good foundation for the future.
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