“We turned out fine with strict parenting — why should things be different now?” It’s a question many parents in.

  You come home after a long day, ask your child how school was, and get a flat “fine” in.

Most parents don’t fail at positive parenting because they don’t understand it — they struggle because it’s hard to remember.

Your five-year-old used to tell you everything — what happened at recess, which friend shared their tiffin, why the class.