Life is process of search towards success and have positive attitude, because you are the maker of your life. Both happiness and sadness are part and parcel of life. In the same way victory and failure are part of your life as you progress in the cycle of any task that you are assigned with. Keep rowing your boat in the direction in which you feel you can achieve your target, it may take hard times, storms, change of directions, bend yourself, be ready to march with only one goal in mind that one day you will reach your target of success. Failure may come on your way, it is for you check your direction and row your boat to the shore of success.
Fear of failure is one big reason why many people can’t seem to forward in life. They constantly set big goals, only to find themselves procrastinating and holding back. Fear of failure is always not the case in every situations of life. It all depends how we are better prepared to face it. Our mindset should be positive about things. For an example if someone wants to target more marks in subjects, let say you have set a goal to achieve it at the end of the year want to tap the shield in school annul day.
You have started well, sticking to your time table, getting up early, starting the day with positive note and going to the school and doing all class works well, finishing every test best possible way, but you feel somewhere you are lacking behind with marks, all of a sudden you find yourself in a situations that are not working your way and you are tempted to give up.
Problem is that you would made little mistakes in your answer script or answers were not presented well. Whole of your presentation of exam paper is not done well. May be you would have over concentrated only one particular subject or you might have scored less marks in subjects or more.
Well in fact you may not have realized right way that you suppose to take effort. If it is the fact when you are not able to reach your target you become disappointed and feel frustrated which is quite natural.
- If you go within yourself deeply and observe you find fears would have been the reason for your failure.
- You would have not cleared your doubts with your subject teachers.
- You would have omitted the questions which were very important.
- You would have not finished exam on time as a result you might have left some questions without answering.
- You may be afraid of reaching your highest goal and getting stuck didn’t know how to proceed.
- There may be some external situations that made keep away from your goal.
- Another important factor could be your friendship circle or peer group pressure.
One must understand there are many other possible ways for a fear of failure to make known to yourself, but often you would have failed to notice it at the earliest and rectify it. So in the process of learning things one must not get disappointed with initial failures. Every failure is the one step further in your life to find the best solution and work on it. Keep the goal in mind never giving up till last.
So as a young students and youth it is a challenge before to win over failure at any moment of your life because you have the caliber. Failure has a never age barrier and it is same with victory too. Have self positive approach to life and keep on working till you achieve your target. If you are hard working personality be sure failure can’t win over you and success is the currency you will save in your bank account of life more and more. So be the best in all that you do, rest will automatically will fall in to your line. Never worried over past, just work on the present and future will hold you great treasures. Stay always with the will power that you can do it any given task. Self motivation is the best way to work on your goal and that will lead to you to great future.
