A breakthrough experience makes a person a happy one at times sad one. In general, every on earth looking for happiness, which we cannot buy it from shopping malls, markets or not even by paying huge amount price.
The happiness is within; one must learn to cultivate the habit of finding oneself happy. This depends on the life’s situation how the person is able to handle.
My wishes to all this morning a day filled with happiness and God’s blessings. The day can be made meaningful through a little thought on how to be happy and make others happy too.
In this busy and mechanized world, everyone is looking for happiness to be found else ware than searching within. We are so much into the busy lifestyle.
We don’t spend a little time in prayer, meditation, spending time with family members and children, as a result, we tend to be tensed, often we across people complaining “ I have lost my happiness”.
The happiness is not formed outside but it is inside within. You cannot be happy for others and others cannot determine your happiness. You can only act as if you are happy for others.
A happy person is the one who wins the many hearts and inspires others to be happy too. We see lots of flowers in the flower garden, as soon as we enter into the garden we could smell the aroma that enthuses us to get attracted to the beautiful flower.
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A flower cannot give a fragrance that it does not have, a flower can only share the sweet fragrance with the people around and to the world that it already has. In the same, it all depends on the persons too. I can only give you what I have.
If I have ignorance I can give only the ignorance. If I have knowledge then I can share my knowledge to all the people around that I can contribute my share to the nation’s development.
If I have wealth I can share my wealth with others, if I have poverty I can only share my poverty with others. Can a blind person help another blind? If I am myself looking around for love in my life, how can I be a source of happiness to others?
The persons have to find within oneself happiness first, the journey may be hard at times, but if one decides that I am responsible for my happiness be sure no others can intrude the happiness of your life.
So the questions always linger in mind would be how do I make my happy in life?
The Following Nine Simple Steps Would Help You Find Happiness In
1. Count Your Blessings
More than finding things at fault try to count the blessings that you have received from God and others during your lifetime in various actions
2. Be Enthusiastic
An active person always finds time for everything even in a busy hectic work he is bale split our time for all the activities. So he is able to finish work on time that makes him relaxed and we can find a person who is very active and enthusiastic.
3. Accept
Never compare yourself with others and things, accept what you are and what have. Be bold to say what is, is, what is not, is not. It can add credits to your life.
4. Learn To Laugh
Laughter is the best medicine, it can bring good health and make tough moments lighter. Learn to laugh at yourself at times when you do some lighter mistakes. See the lighter side of you in the busy day schedule.
5. Smile
A gentle smile can change the tensioned situations into a calm situation. Smiles can travel miles and make people all around happy both giver as well the receiver. So keep a smile because a smile can make you live happily.
6. Be Generous
A kind charity makes both the giver and the receiver happy. When you help the people in need you will find a sense of happiness that creeps your heart making you feel proud of yourself. So give more than you receive.
7. Be Happy With Yourself
No outer situation can make you unhappy in life. Make sure that you remain in a happy mood all the time never letting unpleasant events that affect your mind.
First for you to be happy with yourself and thus ensure there is one happier person in the world who can refill happiness to many.
8. Understand
You must also learn to understand people around you, their situation and deal with them according to their need, never letting you be a reason for their sadness.
9. Give Freedom
Learn to give freedom for others opinion, it may be wrong according to you but still, you listen to him/her. So you make that person feel happy. You explain your stand and learn to agree to disagree.
Follow these simple nine steps be a happy person make people around you happy. By doing this your contribution to the happiness of the world may be a small portion, but it can bring a sea of change in the life of people who come across to you. Be the change for good.
Are you living a happy life? What are the best tips your following every day? leave comments below
