The individual growth depends on the positive atmosphere as well positive approach to life one is blessed with. In the early stage of student’s life certainly positive attitude play a very important role in the growth of an individual.
Often children find hard to cope with discouragement which leads them to total failure in life at early stages of life. It do affects the personality development of a child. The young need to let to know how to handle pressure of discouragement. It is dissatisfaction with the past that leads them down with life’s failure. The fact of life is discouragement leads to distaste for present and distrust for the future.
Being easily discouraged is the natural tendency of the children today. They often feel everything must go according to their taste. If it does not move the way they wanted they get discouraged. They must feel discouragement is ingratitude for the blessings of yesterday, indifference to the opportunity of today, and insecurity of the strength for tomorrow.
I would strongly feel every child must undergo some kind of discouragement in life, so that they have an experience of handling discouragement in near future with a positive attitude to life. They must understand that discouragement is unawareness of the presence of beauty, unconcern for the needs of our fellow man and unbelief in the promises of old. Taking into consideration in life that discouragement is part and parcel of life the children must learn to walk confidently to face the challenge of discouragement.
The normal tendency of a human is when we face with failure we tend to find fault with everyone around; it is something like impatience with time, immaturity of thought and impoliteness to God. Discouragement is life’s opportunity to find strength in you, to find best solutions to all your problems, it leads one to find the best of results in making things for better.
So in the achievement oriented world of today, life has been made fast paced in everything even solving of problems. People seek instant result in all their endeavors, and setback is seen as the end of their road to success.
When a person is able to stay calm and collected yet focused is the hallmark of the truly successful person. Yes this is same with discouragement too, a child of today must be taught how to stay calm in hard situations and try to focus on strength and ability. If they old successful in this process they can become positive attitude approachable personalities.
Never worry about the past failures and discouragements but rather learn to live in the present look ached with positive approach to future and achieve the best of results.
